Many of us know what itâs like to be in a relationship with a man (not all men) who couldnât give a crap about pleasing you â sexually or emotionally. Heâs self-centered and is only in it for himself. Whatâs appealing about that for you? Not much.
Thankfully, thereâs something out there called a Vibrator that makes you the master of your sexuality, so you donât have to deal with the disappointment you get from menâs vibrators. We may not admit it, but most of us have owned one or at least thought about it. In fact, 44% of women between 18 and 60 have used a personal massager.
We all know the obvious reasons for getting ourselves a battery-powered friend â more powerful orgasms, more often â but did you know that there are other benefits to using a vibrator?
The vibrators are great. Theyâre easy to use, clean, and perfect for when you want one-on-one time without anyone elseâs help. But letâs be honest with ourselves and each other: Vibratorsâ sex toys women are a thing, theyâve been a thing, and theyâll continue being a thing until we invent an Adonis for every woman and an Aphrodite for every man.
Here are the top 10 reasons why every woman prefers a vibrator over anything:
You Get To Know Your Body
True story: vibrators help you reach the big O. They help you know what you like between the sheets. The more you know your body and what you want, the more satisfying your sex life can be, alone and with a partner.
Once you know your turn-ons, you can better help a partner get to know them. (More on that in a second!). But more than that, they help you understand how your body is shaped and be more aware of yourself and your health. Exploring your body and taking ownership of your orgasms is not only enjoyable, but itâs also completely healthy.
Love being in control of your pleasure
As much as we love the connection with another person, we also love being able to control our pleasure more. âSometimes we just need to be selfish and get off to sleep, and we donât want to worry about my partnerâs needs.â
Vibrators help you get all the charge of your pleasure. You will know when you are done; you donât need to fake. An absolute pleasure is something else.
You Have Better Sex With Your Partner
One of the great things about vibrators for women is that theyâre not just solo activities. They can easily be blended into partner play. Do you know that myth that guys are intimidated by your vibe? Itâs not true.
A study showed that men do not feel indecisive about using vibrators, and they find sex more appealing when vibrators are involved and think it brings them closer to their partners.